过去的就让它过去吧。。

我知道你会活得更好，更勇敢，更幸福。。要加油哦。。

To share..

To share..

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full.. The students responded with a unanimous ‘yes.’

The professor then produced two Beers from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand.The students laughed..

‘Now,’ said the professor as the laughter subsided, ‘I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things—-your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions—-and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car.. The sand is everything else—-the small stuff.

‘If you put the sand into the jar first,’ he continued, ‘there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life.

If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.

Spend time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with grandparents. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and mow the lawn.

Take care of the golf balls first—-the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the Beer represented. The professor smiled and said, ‘I’m glad you asked.’ The Beer just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for a couple of Beers with a friend.

it seemed that i have forgotten what's the meaning of golf to me nowadays..I feel sorry to myself..

果然。。运气会被心情影响。。

我总是认为。。这些不会发生在我身上的啦。。
终于。。

真的很对不起。。今天我真的无能为力。。
眼看时间一秒一秒“滴答、滴答”的流失。。
到最后我还是只能够说对不起。。

好像不管多努力，到最后。。
都只能说对不起。。

什么时候才能结束呢。。

“好久不见”

今天（17/3/12）是我堂姑，Jojo的婚礼。。

上星期（11/3/12）是我小学同学，伟良，和他妻子注册结婚的大日子。。

*恭喜恭喜！由衷的祝福你们，希望你们幸福快乐。。*

他们早在去年就向我发出邀请，希望我能出席他们的大日子。。收到邀请我真的很开心，一是开心他们寻寻觅觅，终于觅到了他们的另一半。。再来就是。。他们还记得我。。

在这里生活了6、7年。。渐渐地，开始不了解马来西亚的人事物了。。要说没有和当初的同窗好友疏离，用屁股想都知道是假的。。我也了解到，当大家开始步入社会，即使在同一片土地，他们也都开始用“好久不见”来当开场白了，更何况是我？所以当我知道，他们在他们的大日子会想到我，会邀请我，我怎么不开心感动呢？

人嘛，总是要长大的。。总要面对许多的无可奈何。。当初来到这里是我自己的选择。。选择继续留在这里的也是我自己。。过年过节的不回家，还是我自己选择的。。倘若有一天，没人再记得还有一个我，我还能埋怨谁呢？

要怎样才能家人，朋友，事业兼得呢。。即贪心，又自私的我。。

The long winding road that I've chosen..

If you ever wonder how was my PhD candidature treating me,

here's a very good video clip you can reference to..

the long winding road...

argh~~

Why couldn't I steer my bike to the way I want??!!!!!!

I can't ride it..It was so hard for me to convince myself to buy a bike n ride to scholl, n now it's a useless bike!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!argh~~~

6年了，我们第一次一起过情人节。。

我不是那种骄横的女子，只是，也想要在特别的节日里，有你，有家人的陪伴。。

我没想过你会去买花。。这好像是你第一次主动送我花吧。。之前都是毕业的时候，我要求的吧。。花，不是重点。。而是你竟然会主动动心思，搞浪漫。。我真的意想不到。。还蛮感动的。。谢谢你。谢谢你这么多年来的爱护与包容。

Chinese new year

Seeing people posting "balik kampung~"; "on the way home!", etc.

I'm murmured.."not going home..again.."

Everytime this year, I would think, "Tassie isn't that good actually"

Happy Chinese New Year, happy reunion everyone!

谢谢你

想家了。。

想家人了。。

想朋友了。。

真的。。没事的时候这种思绪都不会出现。。

到了出事的时候就会想要有人在自己的身边，即使实际上什么忙也帮不了。。

谢谢你，还好有你们在我身边。。

很庆幸自己不是一个人的。。

没有了你的支持，我该怎么走下去？

yosh!

it's time to work hard again!

I like to keep myself busy~~

Happy new year

Happy new year peeps!!

I wish u all have a blessed year ahead~~

Dad n mum n sissss are on their way back to Muar........

Smtimes I felt quite reluctant to go back to Muar when I was young..

I didnt understand why they like staying in a small house like packed sardines..

But now...

I miss the sardines' life..

I miss all the Ngssss..

I hope you all have a great time!!

偶尔

最近我发现

偶尔偷懒很不错

偶尔迟到很不错

偶尔赖床很不错

偶尔追巴士也很OK

可是，

经常闹脾气就不太OK了。。

给某某

你很不开心吗？

你很不满意吗？

难道生活在自己幻想的世界里真的就会开心吗？

难道毁谤别人、语出伤人你就会快乐吗？

我没想过身边认识的人会是这样的。。

我们也许只见过几次面。。认识？可能还说不上。。

你怎么想、怎么做、怎么讲、怎么写。。我都控制不了。。

也许这是你抒发自己的管道。。

只是，当你伤害了我的家人、我的朋友。。这就是我不能原谅的。。

每个人都有自己的界限。。

我不犯你，为什么你犯我们？

也许你不喜欢某人或某人的言行。。

那就把别人无心上传和别人开开心心分享的图片，刻意地加盐加醋，看图编故事？

你说你还小，

你就可以污蔑、毁谤他吗？

你就可以不用得到他人的同意，转载别人的文章、图片吗？

那我来告诉你，这是不道德的。。

你曾逃避，代表你知道这是不对的。。

那为什么不知悔改呢？

我并没有要伤害你的意思。。

我只是在想，

我该怎么保护我的家人、我的朋友。。

我该怎么帮助你。。

我已经整整一个星期没有早睡早起的枷锁。。

好幸福哦。。♥

阿珊毛骨悚然的。。

蜘蛛！！

昨天是一群小蜘蛛诞生的日子。。

没错。。是一群。。

只可惜。。

也是它们踏上不归之路的日子。。

对不起。。

我不能让你们把阿珊给吓坏。。

Nap

昨天的午觉

我竟然天亮睡到天暗。。

醒了没有四个小时

再从天黑睡到天亮。。

笨啊~~

竟然睡了差不多20个小时。。

能吃能睡。。

果然是最幸福的~

Merry christmas

不同了

十二月了，

和以往一样，我正在跟拇指头一样大的苍蝇作战。。

和以往一样，我有圣诞火鸡做晚餐。。

和以往一样，我这里的夏天犹如初冬。。

不同的是，爸妈姐妹都不在身边。。

不同的是，我不在马国。。

不同的是，我没有假期了。。

Am a cold-blooded killer..

Oh great..

This is how I became a cold-blooded serial rat killer..

damn it..

I reallyfeels sorry..

I'm sorry..

This isnt a good start for the day...